Loving Work, Missing Home: How Moms of Young Children Can Thrive While Traveling

Being a working mom means every trip I take is packed with more than just presentations and deadlines—it’s filled with purpose, pride, and the reminder of why I do it all. I love what I do—collaborating with smart, driven people, helping our team win, and feeling the energy that comes from making an impact. My work challenges me, fulfills me, and lets me grow into the kind of woman and mom I want my kids to see.

Every time I wave goodbye, there’s that tug in my chest, a reminder that my heart doesn’t quite fit in a carry-on.

Can anyone of you relate? If so, you’re not alone.

And over the years, I’ve discovered simple, heartfelt ways to make those work trips still feel connected, comforting, and even a bit magical for our family:

• Surprise notes: Before heading out, I make a sticky note and place it by their bed, breakfast spot, or in their lunchbox. Little notes have become tradition around our house—even my 2nd grader will surprise me with a note in my suitcase while I’m away.

• Group text messages: We have a running group chat of selfies and inside jokes—anything that makes them feel close even from miles away.

• Comfort item: Give them a blanket or stuffed animal "from Mom” to cuddle with while you’re gone. It’s simple, but it helps with those "I miss you” moments.

• Matching bracelets: Taylor Swift isn’t the only one handing out friendship bracelets. We make bracelets and wear as a reminder that "I’m with you,” even when I’m not physically there.

• FaceTime handshakes: Do you have a special handshake? I do with each one of my children. It's hilarious but it's so worth the laugh and special moment.

• Easing back in: On your first night home, I like to spend a little one-on-one time with each child to reconnect and celebrate being back together.

Loving what you do career-wise doesn’t mean you love your kids any less. When you light up talking about your team’s successful month, ace a presentation, or come home proud of what you accomplished, your kids see that joy. They see what it looks like to build a life filled with purpose and passion—and that’s one of the greatest examples we can give them.

To every working mom reading this: you’re amazing. You’re showing your kids that it’s possible to chase big dreams and love deeply at home. Next time you pack your bags, remember you’re not just leaving. You’re also leading.

Written by Andrea Miller (Ohrtman)